riendo (laughing)

snapshots from Chile

Since marrying 40 years ago, this couple has lived in this home on the outskirts of the city of Temuco, where they offered me endless cups of tea and butter cookies.

Now 81 years old, this interviewee, heating our tea here, protested the military dictatorship in Chile in her 20s, and was never able to get a job following.

At 78 years old, this interviewee is forced to continue working, but loves listening to music from youth, and sharing a late-night “tecito,” or tea, with his wife.

Because her husband still works much of the day to make ends meet, their sweet dog is incredible company.

Every municipality in Chile coordinates a club for older adults by neighborhood. On how her local group, which a neighbor urged her to come to, provides laughter and joy, loneliness antidotes:

I laugh when they do parties, because [the members] are good to dance, I watch them, applaud, cheer! I like that they’re this way. I said to the director the other day: ‘This tea I drink here I found to the most delicious, more than the tea I drink at home alone.

Given she does not drive, she takes the micro (bus), a challenge with her prosthetic leg. On how a conscientious driver makes transport accessible:

[The driver] already knows me and goes right to my stop. [He says] ‘Thank you, ma’am, pardon.’ He gives a hand to get down. He helps me. But, oh! A love.’

On her grandson, who lives next door, and popped in while we talked:

This boy, oh, this boy! I have a pile [because] every night he gives me a card. ‘Grandma, you are the most beautiful and best grandmother in the world. I care for you, I adore you, I love you.’ Oh! Him and I. Him and I.

Photos taken by Grace Ellrodt with subjects’ consent.

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